If you are in despair but weak in your efforts, then it is true that your despair CREATES SUFFERING. This is the true deadlock.
If you are in despair because you have fought honestly to the utmost, then it's not despair, but a powerless surrender THAT BEGS FOR HELP. This is the true essence of Powerlessness, not a deadlock.
📍If you're a LEADER, never declare there's deadlock unless your team feels powerlessness, for that's when help is needed.
- 〰 Powerlessness isn't a deadlock, but it's reaching the limits of a struggle that deserves the surrender seeking aid (not laziness).
📍If you're a LEADER, never say there's deadlock unless your team feels in a deadlock, for that's when difficulties arise
- 〰 Being in a deadlock isn't helplessness; it's not reaching the final stage of the struggle, hence not yet deserving the surrender that seeks help